That's exactly what was on the e-mail I received! So it is marked now. That's good. I can't believe it went unmarked for 2 years. It only takes a month or two to get a headstone customized and mounted at the very most I'd think. Seems to me that she still sucks at life.

If you did some research on your rumors you would find that Cindy never lost custody of her son. She and her husband split AFTER their son died. She had her reasons for not getting a headstone until recently. If you don't agree with what she has to say, then don't listen. She has her right to speak out against the war, and I admire her for that. Why are you so offended by a grieving mother that you have to help spread false rumors?

If you will read closely in my post I was asking people if these were valid claims I was trying to squash the rumor to fact or fiction. Then if you will notice that 4HIM so kindly posted links that confirm and dismiss said rumors.

What makes me mad about the grieving mother is that her son chose to join the military. They knew what he was getting into. He could have very well taken a job with the police force or coast gaurd if he wanted to have a military stuctured job where the likeliness of getting killed is reduced. What were those reasons for not getting the headstone?

Sure she has her right to speak out against the war. If I don't agree with what she has to say then don't listen. That's typical of a liberal to say. Liberals are known for speaking their voice but silencing others by interupting or just shutting down and not listening. Liberals always want their voice to be heard but not the voices of those who disagree with them. I don't know why I'm writting this because you're probably not listening. This is a major problem in our politics and society that we don't communicate well and it's listen to me but not that guy. Listen to everything and make up your own mind. Sorry I listened to her and made an opinion. God forbid!

Hey! Liberal12345, you dufess!. He wasn't starting rumors, he was asking if they were true or false. You need to pull your head out and read these blogs a little more closely so that you understand. So as far as your girl Cindy goes, if she's a grieving mother then I am the President. What was her reason for not getting a headstone right away, except for the fact that she was enjoying the benefits of her brave sons insurance money. If you believe that she couldn't afford a headstone than you are really living in the stone ages. It's free compliments of Uncle sugar. Her son was part of an all volunteer force and if you think that he wasn't aware of the fact that one day his life may be put on the line, then you really are from the stone age. You Democrats are a bunch of pompous asses. You whine for the last eight years and now that you have control of the houses you are going to further devide this country and once again make us accessable to another terror attack. Possibly this time it will be nuclear. GOD PLEASE HELP SAVE US FROM THESE LIBERAL TERRORIST.

I'm sorry for your loss. It's your decision where you lay your child's remains as well as your father's and I'm glad that you have made such a financial sacrifice to honor your dead, if that's what is important to you.