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This is one reason I don't go to church (Sorry Mom)Posted by Channing-100Proof on November 14, 2005 - 11:27 PM I have never been big on lying. I am not good at it and I have a guilty conscience so when I do lie and get away with it, I feel bad. However, when it came to church I had no problems lying my skinny behind off. Whenever someone asked me if I went to church, I said yes and picked from a predetermined list of names. I usually used First Baptist, St. Paul's, or Good Shepherd because those are common church names. I lied because I never wanted to get into a discussion about why I don't go to church anymore. Believe it or not, I was raised in church. My mom and dad were very active on various boards and committees. My sister was our musician and my brothers were in the choir. Personally I wore many hats. On any given Sunday you could find me passing the collection plates and praying over the money, singing with the choir, helping old ladies to their seats, delivering a welcome message, playing the saxophone, performing a solo (this was before puberty hit) or making the punch for our after service gatherings. I was also a regular at bible school/camp during my summer breaks from school. Things have changed a lot since then. At some point in my life I decided to see how many of the Seven Deadly Sins I could commit (For those of you that are interested it's six). Some would blame my becoming a heathen on my friends in college, but this is not the case. Even the wildest of them went to church on a fairly regular basis. Some might say that it was my partying/drinking on Saturday nights that kept me from going but I was able to wake up in time to watch the early morning football previews so that was not it either. I stopped going to church because I realized that religion is quite possibly the biggest producer of hypocrites and conflicts in the world. It also brings us people like Pat Robertson, the focus of this rant. Robertson told residents of a Pennsylvania town not to be surprised if disaster struck after they voted out school board members for supporting intelligent design. Now I know that God is all-powerful being that controls everything but his hands are probably a little full right now. He is dealing with hurricanes, tsunamis, earthquakes, and a WAR, I don't think he is too concerned about our voting records. Here are Robertson's own words, "I'd like to say to the good citizens of Dover: if there is a disaster in your area, don't turn to God, you just rejected Him from your city." Robertson also said, "And don't wonder why He hasn't helped you when problems begin, if they begin. I'm not saying they will, but if they do, just remember, you just voted God out of your city. And if that's the case, don't ask for His help because he might not be there". So if I am hearing him correctly, God will punish you for voting liberal and then when you ask for forgiveness He will ignore you. That kind of goes against the forgiving God that I learned about growing up. I haven't read one in a while but I think forgiveness is a major part of the Bible. Robertson once warned the city of Orlando, Florida that it risked hurricanes, earthquakes and terrorist bombs after it allowed homosexual organizations to put up rainbow flags in support of sexual diversity. Apparently, if you are trying to get along with and respect others, God will punish you. I guess I really am going to Hell. And let's not forget when he called for the assassination of Venezuelan Present Hugo Chavez. Let me give you a minute for that one to sink in. This Christian man said, "I don't know about this doctrine of assassination, but if he thinks we're trying to assassinate him, I think we really ought to go ahead and do it. It's a whole lot cheaper than starting a war and I don't think any oil shipments will stop." He later apologized for the statement but that doesn't excuse him for making it. Disasters for voting against intelligent design? Terrorist's bombings for promoting diversity? Calling for assassinations? If a Muslim extremist, White supremacist, or Black militant made similar statements the world would be outraged. It seems like Robertson got a pass. If he is a Christian leader, I'll stay a heathen and take my chances in Hell. I have no problem with religious people. I respect them regardless of whom or what they choose to worship (God, Allah, Buddha, Zeus, etc.). What I can't stand are people that try to push their religion on everybody. I can't stand people that think their religion is the "right one" and everyone else is going to burn. I can't stand people that try to scare people into religion. For some strange reason, Robertson is a leader. People listen to what he has to say, so he needs to think before he opens his mouth. Stupidity doesn't care what religion you are. Submitted by scampbell on November 15, 2005 - 10:58 AM.
If you think you life is all well now- Try God and really put him first in your life, Religiously Pray every night for forgivness and your eyes will soon be opened and you will see how dark you life really has become -lost without the Spirit. Come to see the Light of Jesus- We all see better in the Bright Sunshine than we do in the dusk of night........My story was once not so different from yours.... Faithfully forever Amen..... Submitted by sbradle2 on November 15, 2005 - 11:11 AM.
It is true that the church has many hypocrites produced and already within the church...no matter what church you belong to; however, when one stops going to church and decides to venture out into a new world, God is also shaping and molding you into the person HE wants you to be. It's fine to have done all those things growing up in the church, but it's even better to start doing things you're led to do. It's just wrong for someone to use God in saying townspeople brought damnation unto themselves by rejecting God from their city by the way they voted. God is forgiving, but he is also a jealous God and no one man can have final say in a matter such as this one. So far, I still see God working in and thru you with the message you've written; maybe God is working thru the situations surronding these people. And regardless of whether or not you still go to church or not, I can tell you have a care about what God thinks of you. Submitted by LESIABISHOP on November 15, 2005 - 2:16 PM.
It sounds like you have ran into a lot of people and situations that have left a bad taste in your mouth about Church. I can understand that. People, will always let you down. We are all human and this side of heaven will "ALWAYS" make mistakes. There is only one who saves, one who will never leave you and one who loves you unconditionally... Jesus Christ. Hell is a literal place of torment and was designed for satan and his demons, not for us. However, if we turn our backs on Christ, by not receiving his free gift of salvation through the blood that was shed on the cross for our sins, we have rejected Him. Romans 10:9 say, "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, you "will" be saved. It is about a relationship with Jesus Christ that saves us. And you are right people in high places sometimes do not realize the impact they have in the world. It is important that we "try" to live as Christ did, the perfect example. If we truly seek him, he will not hide from us. Submitted by dogface54 on November 15, 2005 - 5:46 PM.
Why Some Christians Don't Celebrate Christmas Submitted by bradt67us on November 16, 2005 - 9:26 PM.
Remember a little bit of what you wrote? So my question for you is can it be possible that what you are saying is indeed a fase man or woman made doctrine? Many people have differing interpretations of the Bible and this is only your thoughts and interpretations. Submitted by kimunchon on November 15, 2005 - 7:07 PM.
It is unfortunate that you tried to find excuses for not going to church. You should rather look at yourself and decide what is good for you. You should know that there are a few bad apples in all baskets. You should look for good apples and not just notice the bad. You said you will take your chances in Hell. Good luck to you because there is no second chance down there. I noticed that you said "Sorry Mom". Did you really mean it? Submitted by simplysweet on November 15, 2005 - 10:25 PM.
It seems as though you have allowed the mistakes of man to effect your relationship with God. No man is perfect, no matter how hard he/she tries. I believe that when you allow the statements and beliefs of these "leaders", you give them the power to effect your relationship with God. You seem to believe in God, but not his forgivness. You seem to believe in God, and call those who make these comments hypocrites; but are you, yourself, a hypocrite for believing, but severing your relationship based upon the statements and opinions of others. Remember, God loves all of us forever and always, it just may be the things that we do that he doesn't like. Let the man who has not sinned cast the first stone. Submitted by jilaco on November 16, 2005 - 4:11 AM.
There sure are a lot of hypocrits in the political arena...does that mean that there are no honest people in our government? There are a lot of hypocrits at the bars every weekend...does that mean EVERYONE that goes to the bars are hypocrits? There are hypocrit parents out there that talk about how bad so-and-so parent is--and yet don't give their child a lick of attention themselves. Does that mean ALL parents are bad? There are hypocrits in every single organization out there. If you wanted to avoid all 'hypocrits' then I suggest you stay home...oops...can't avoid them there either! I WILL tell you one thing that I know without a doubt. I am SO GLAD that there are not a bunch of 'perfect people' in my Christian church...if there WERE, I wouldn't be allowed to attend! :) Christians don't all profess to be 'perfect'...just forgiven. YOU are as big a hypocrit as Pat Robertson if you have ONE TIME been a hypocrit--which in your blog you admitted that you have been! If I murder one person, and my neighbor murders two, am I not still a murderer just like him/her? Pat Robertson needs to reread portions of the Bible that talk about how we are not allowed to judge others--especially when we cannot afford to sit on any judgement seat ourselves. BUT, Pat Robertson isn't the only one that needs to reread it... Submitted by lynxRHot on November 16, 2005 - 12:14 PM.
To base the validity of Christianity on the actions of so-called hypocrites is to be easily deceived. If you let a so-called hypocrite keep you away from God, then the hypocrite is closer to God than you are. Religion does not produce hypocrites....every hypocrite is such because he or she chooses to be...Religion is not to blame! We are to follow God's word, and apply it to our lives. Will we make mistakes? Absolutely. Will we sin? Absolutely. But the key point is that Christ paid the penalty for our sins when He shed His blood for all of mankind. Whether or not we choose to accept His gift of eternal life is up to us. Yes, we reap what we sow, but through God's grace, we don't suffer the ultimate penalty if we accept His payment for our sins. We suffer consequences for our actions....Christ suffered the penalty. I agree that there are things that Pat Robertson has said and done that I do not agree with. However, if I let his actions keep me from Christ, ultimately I am the one who loses. Christ is my BEST FRIEND, my SAVIOUR, my LORD, and He will NEVER let me down. It is Christ who we must keep our focus upon. It saddens me to hear anyone say that they will take their chances with going to hell. And I believe that if I am a stumblingblock to anyone coming to know Christ, I will have to answer for that one day. But fortunately, Christ is my example....not mankind. Submitted by bradt67us on November 16, 2005 - 9:14 PM.
Why Go To Church? This started a real controversy in the "Letters to the Editor" column, "I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked All right, now that you're done reading, send it on! I think everyone Submitted by Jillian on November 17, 2005 - 7:19 AM.
In response to your "why I don't go to church anymore" I offer the following: First, and foremost, WE are the church...every single one of us who confess Jesus and accept Him into our lives...WE are the church...blameless? hardly! Look at the combination of men hand picked by Jesus to be the first disciples! Peter? Lied, denied, cursed anyone who dared suggest he was a follower of Jesus, but in the end crucified upside down for being a true believer...Matthew? a much-hated tax collector (some things never change..lol) chief of sinners, yet in the end loyal follower of Christ..and writer of one of the Gospels. and on and on I could go...but that's not necessary because Im sure you get my drift...we are ALL just sinners saved by grace...if the truth were told...all churches..EVERY one of them is just a bunch of sinners choosing to seek Jesus...if it werent for His grace none of us could say we are a believer. Hypocrits in the church? always has been and always will be...but the thing is you, me, and all others are gonna be left with NO EXCUSE when it comes to our individual decision to follow or deny Christ...the day I become perfect will be the day I leave this world...until then Im at church when possible trying to learn more about Him...not trying to make excuses because people have lied about me...degraded me or my kids...turned away when I needed help...or any other thing that hurts...bottom line I serve Christ not another imperfect individual at a church...of all the churches in the world surely there is one that can help lead you to Him imperfect though parts of it may be. I pray you will find one because the fact you said "sorry mom" proves you know the right thing to do! God Bless! Submitted by stevemarb on November 17, 2005 - 10:08 AM.
A few thoughts on "Christians": In the south, just about everyone is a "Christian", but this is a social title, rather than a heart title. A true Christian is someone who has a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Christianity doesn't hinge on being a good person. A true Christian is not necessarily a better person than one who is not a Christian. He's just forgiven for all the bad stuff. Over time, though, with God's help, Christians begin to develop characteristics more and more like Jesus. As for Pat Robertson, who is to say whether or not he is a Christian? Regardless, Christians are certainly not perfect people. You have to look to the Bible and Jesus for your standards, not to flawed people. Submitted by themctier on November 17, 2005 - 12:35 PM.
Dear Channing-100Proof, Church is not perfect because humans are not perfect. You will NEVER find an institution that is. However, church is a place where like-minded people can come together to worship God. While it is true that there are those who use the church for selfish purposes, there are many more people who go because they want to be closer to God and they want to follow in Jesus' footsteps. Please do not use the failures of a few to come between you and God. Sometimes our viewpoints are clouded by the evil in society, making us feel that no good comes out of institutions. When this occurs, we have to take a step back and become determined to see the good. AND THERE IS GOOD! You just have to change your perspective. May God Bless You in your Journey! Submitted by Channing-100Proof on November 17, 2005 - 7:41 PM.
Wow, I did not know that being a heathen would get me so much attention. As the title of my blog suggests this is not the only reason that I don't attend church, so I can only imagine what would have happened if I had gone through the whole list. I appreciate everyone's concern but don't worry, I am not about to start making sacrifices to the Dark Lord of the Underworld. Even though I am not in church on Sunday's, I still try to live right. Sbradle2, themctier, clifd36, jillian, simplysweet are all right, church is full of hypocrites and no one church is perfect. I have always said that some of the biggest devils are in church every Sunday and that is one reason why I don't go. I just try to live my life right and whatever happens after that happens. I am not saying it's the right way, I am not saying it's the only way, it's just my way. And for 20 something years it has worked. I am nice to everyone, I don't try to hurt anyone and on those rare occasions when I do hurt someone, I try to make it right. I don't know if that is enough to get me into Heaven but it should help me get a foot in the door (or in this case gate). I have done more than my share of sinning and there are times when I treat the 10 Commandments more like suggestions than rules, but overall I am a good person. I'm just not a very spiritual one. After all that, if not going to church is what keeps me out of Heaven then maybe it is not the place for me. It funny, I actually wrote this blog to put the spotlight on Pat Robertson and now it has become "Save the Channing". You have to love this Internet thing. Submitted by Eusebius on November 19, 2005 - 10:33 AM.
It funny, I actually wrote this blog to put the spotlight on Pat Robertson and now it has become "Save the Channing". You should take that as a compliment. Apparently, everyone has given up on saving Pat Robertson, but think you still have potential. Submitted by greist on November 21, 2005 - 12:30 AM.
I did not hear the comments Pat Robertson made but I can understand what he might have said based on your quotation. God is the same yesterday, today and forever. Have you read the Bible? When Israel turned away from God, God lifted His hand of protection from them. Did you ever disobey your father? Did he exact some kind of punishment upon you? When Israel rejected God, He allowed Nebuchadnezzar to defeat Judah and Israel and take the people into captivity. When the people realized what was happening and turned towards God He ignored them. That was their punishment. God warned the Israelites for some time about their disobedience. After many different prophets warned the people of their disobedience, God finally turned them over to Nebuchadnezzar. So God does warn us about our disobedience. God is patient and loving! Because of His love we receive mercy from what we should receive. But reject God and He will hand you over to the enemy. Pat Robertson has made some assumptions based on what he has learned about the character of God, through His word, the Bible. Are his assumptions right? Only God knows what He will do! So look to Pat Robertson as a voice telling the people in that city that they might what to rethink their decision. My job is to pray for them, that their ears, eyes and hearts may be opened to God! Submitted by mmmmmmmmm on November 23, 2005 - 11:43 AM.
Channing-100Proof you still don't get it. You can live your life the way you want to, that's fine. But, being a nice person and not hurting anyone dosen't do anything for your chances on going to heaven. It's Romans 10:9-10 that does it. The people that are writing back to you are only trying to help. Submitted by yankeepeeg on November 24, 2005 - 12:56 AM.
Kudos to you Channing.. Submitted by rico260 on November 18, 2005 - 3:01 AM.
Right on about Pat Robinson. It seems as though people will follow anyone who mentions "GOD" every other sentence. Can anyone remember Jim Jones, one of the biggest religious hypocrits of all time. There are quite a few people that considers themselves Christians only when it is convienient. If you do not go to church, that is your choice, only you have to live with your decision. It is funny how people are always trying to tell someone else what is right for them. Submitted by redneckbarbie on November 18, 2005 - 7:47 AM.
Channing-100Proof, I love your openness and honesty without trying to hurt others. I can honestly say "been there" when I read your comments. What finally dawned on me, though, was that even though I would try to keep the 10 commandments, be a good person, etc, that wasn't what would get me to heaven. I'm sure that if you spent as much time in church as you say (and I believe you), then you must realize that church membership, good deeds, even baptism isn't what gets you to heaven. It's a loving dedication to Jesus, Son of God, with all that you are and all that you have. So turn that around... LACK of a loving dedication to Jesus, Son of God, is the thing that keeps you OUT of heaven (not being a bad person or not being a member of a church). (This is because the perfect Jesus died for us so that we can go the perfect God.) The Bible teaches to "not forsake the gathering of the believers". Take it as you like. This could mean church, but it could also mean ANY type of fellowship that involves worship of God. Most important thing is this, though. To Church or Not To Church, that is NOT the question. The question is this - what is your relationship to Jesus? Love in Christ, Submitted by ssoozer on November 18, 2005 - 2:02 PM.
I honestly feel sorry for you. I too once admired Pat Robertson. Unfortunately I have lost a lot of faith in him over the last few years. However, that does not change my faith in the one true Lord our God. Nothing else needs to be said. Submitted by curly123053 on November 19, 2005 - 10:18 AM.
I can understand where you are coming from, but I also understand one other thing. If you would have had a "personal" relationship with the Lord you would know your place in church. Submitted by waltamiller on November 19, 2005 - 10:22 PM.
Whew! I'm glad I don't have to worry about all these things that I'v heard from the people making the comments. God is God. Religion is religion. I have my own understanding with God. I don't need a manual to teach me how to be a respectful human being, or how to show my respects to my creator. I am not perfect, but I feel safe because I haven't met anyone else that is either. I know that God is there for me. I am not religous. but I am speritual and in touch with God everyday. Is it really important how you show your respects to God. I think the most important thing is in the actual doing, no matter how you do it. Is that really your concience bothering you or someone else. It is not important what other people say or do, even when it comes to God. It doesen't affect me one way or the other, because God lets me know what I need to know. So lighten up people you don't have to live in fear. It's better to live in awe. Submitted by rbolin on November 20, 2005 - 4:57 PM.
Man is a Religious Animal. He is the only Religious Animal. He is the only animal that has the True Religion—several of them. He is the only animal that loves his neighbor as himself and cuts his throat if his theology isn’t straight. --Mark Twain Submitted by Scandy on November 20, 2005 - 7:05 PM.
If you ever had that personal, deep, relationship with GOD you wouldn't let these things bother you. It sounds as if you have pulled yourself away from the truth and everybody does that from time to time. I don't know if there is a perfect Church or a perfect denomination but the whole thing is knowing that God sent his only Son, Jesus, to die for your sins so we would have a chance to spend eternity with him, it is free, you just have to claim your ticket, and you will fall away sometimes but keep your faith strong. Some of these people on TV and who surround me make me sick on their beliefs and what they think is going to happed, read the one and true Bible that is our instruction in life and the truth. Hang in there, I will pray you find that relationship again or for the first time. Sometimes when you grow up in Church you are doing everything because that is what you do and your family does and the big picture is missed, do you really know Jesus, do you tell him everyday that you love him and what he did for a undeserving man like yourself, well maybe take a moment and get to know your Jesus again. He loves you and he loves all of us, he showed us and all we have to do is accept him, how hard is that? Submitted by retred58 on November 22, 2005 - 9:43 AM.
Hypocrites in the church?? Why certainly there are--and my Grandmother, God rest her soul, had this advice on dealing with them. "Young man, you have a simple choice. You can either go to church with the hypocrites or go to hell with them!" Submitted by cschill on November 23, 2005 - 12:44 PM.
Channing, I wholeheartedly agree with you. Some of the reasons you listed are exactly why I no longer attend church either. I think it all boils down to my numerous issues with organized religion as a whole. I don't need to be in church to see God. Submitted by curly123053 on November 22, 2005 - 12:52 PM.
I will have to include "namlive" in my prayers because according to his comments he is one of the lost. Submitted by dothy on November 22, 2005 - 2:55 PM.
john 3:16 for GOD so loved the world that he gave his only begotton son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life. man will sometime lie but GOD never lies trust GOD and you will be ok because GOD loves you. Submitted by DONKEMP on November 22, 2005 - 6:12 PM.
You are right about scare tactic's and some of the stupidity we hear from some of these TV preachers. Statements like that make If you ever go back to a church family you need to remember that all of us are different and have different views. Thats people. Submitted by Honden on November 24, 2005 - 10:31 AM.
By definition a hypocrite is a liar. It is then not a stretch to say that hypocrites are dishonest people. They may have good intentions in a "church setting". The rest of the week however, may be a different story. And just why am I wrong if I choose not to associate with hypocrites? I do not do business with hypocrites. I sure do not desire to spend quality time with them. Nor would I desire to force my kids to do so. In fact..I would coach them to shun hypocrites from every facet of their lives. Some religious thinkers tend to suggest that a church is actually more akin to a hospital where the sick go for treatment. I refuse to speak for anyone else but Me and my family would like to stay away from the sick puppies thankyou very much. Submitted by The Voice Insid... on November 29, 2005 - 7:28 AM.
Anytime you bring religion into a dicussion,it sparks controversy. Faith is just what it says. Faith. You have to decide whether you believe or not. Religion is not perfect because people are involved. The major problem I have with most religious groups is their tendency to tell everyone else that they are going to HELL. For me the only way I could judge anyone else is to be GOD, which I'm not, or to be perfect, which I'm surley not. I need all my time to attempt to stay on the straight and narrow. Faith is a very personal thing. Each person has to chose to have it or not have it. What anyone believes is his or her own business unless you wish to discuss it. As far as Pat Robertson, he is a big blowhard with too much money and too much time on his hands, trying to make the news. He probally got million of $$$$ in contributions over his comments. Which in the end was probally the idea anyway. Submitted by imas8nh8r on January 29, 2006 - 4:25 PM.
To the author of the article, you use the word "hypocrite" without understanding its full meaning. People perceive Christians and the Church as hypocritical only because they have a defined moral standard. Anyone can pick up a Bible and say "Hey Christian, you are hypocrite because you are not following (blank)." Christianity does not claim perfection as a required or desired trait of their followers. The Church is still filled with finite human beings, struggling daily with their fleshly desires. Following Christ only saves one such person from the consequences of his actions, and provides motivation to live righteously and treat others with respect. Pat Robertson, though an obvious hypocrite because of his knack for vulnerability, is far removed from the actions of the pagan world around him. Lets begin comparing his overly pious statements to things like adultery, divorce, homosexuality, murder, and other blatant sins. The effects of these sins, the ravages they cause, are far removed from the offenses caused by the missplaced, misguided, and misrepresented words of a "Christian leader". Who is the hypocrite? Those people who live their lives according to their own moral standard, or lack there of, and destroy the lives of those around them. Christians, at the very least, are trying to make a tangible difference, and that is what makes them easy targets when they mess up. It is hard to target someone who has no stance at all. Submitted by kehlijuanita on July 15, 2008 - 10:06 PM.
You are 100% right. Church is so screwed up. I cannot stand being connected to my church, or any church for that matter. I used to be SUPER involved in church. My husband and I were Youth Leaders for an pentecostal church. And I have never been more disappointed in people in my life. The church wore us out, by asking us to do so much volunteer work for them. And when we needed help in something, the church did nothing to help us out. We devoted over 40 hours a week to helping out in different ministries, only to be criticized and disrespected. I see better behavior non Christians than I do in Christians. It disgusts me now. Especially the "cliques". Women is our church form stupid catty groups, and leave out the other women in the church on purpose - wow - just like high school!!! I was in a "clique" but as soon as I realized it, I broke free and tried to befriend others in the church who were being treated poorly. It disgusted me what I saw. Aren't we supposed to be kind to one another, especially in a church family? I got so sick of the way the people treated one another, I left church completely. I don't want to have anything to do with that church anymore. I even tried to share my feelings, only to be slapped in the face by our stupid new pastor and his wife. I am hearby DONE with Christians, and now live in peace without a church. And LOVE God on my own, without a stupid church to make me feel worse, not better about myself and my family. DO NOT FEEL GUILTY ABOUT LEAVING ANY CHURCH. It's not God making you guilty, it's PEOPLE who try to make you feel guilt. Once I understood that, I never let anyone destroy my opinions about God again. It's only God's opinion that matters, and no one else's.
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